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Being soft isn’t a weakness. It’s a lifestyle.
In a world that worships hustle, Soft Girl Summer is your gentle reminder to pause, reconnect with your body, and move at your own sacred rhythm.
You can be soft and powerful.
You can heal and still crave more.
You can take your time and still shine.
This is your soft season. Let it bloom.
Where your softness meets power
Let your glow be gentle. Let your pace be sacred
Soft Girl Summer is a digital sanctuary for women choosing ease, sensuality, and self-honoring as a lifestyle. We inspire you to slow down, care deeply for your body, and embrace the soft yet powerful energy that blooms when you’re aligned with your feminine rhythm.
Whether you’re healing, glowing up, or just catching a tropical breeze, this is your invitation to live deliciously, with intention, ritual, and joy.
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The soft life isn’t just a vibe, it’s a return to your own flow. Start where you are. Unwind. Reset. Pour into yourself first. Our regimens, recipes, and reflections are here to help you feel well-fed, well-loved, and deeply nourished from the inside out.
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A living archive of essays, recipes, reflections, and routines to help you live soft, slow, and soulful. The glow-up starts within. Each journal entry is an invitation to begin again—slower, softer, and more in tune with your body’s tempo.
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Soft practices for a radiant body and balanced spirit
Halle Berry’s menopause journey inspired me to write this. I’ve heard so many opinions about menopause growing up, even that it doesn’t exist and it’s just a product of your environment. That “environment” part? We’ll touch more on that in another blog. But what stood out to me most was how little softness is offered to women during this time.
Still Blooming:
A Soft Life Guide to Menopause
Full moons / Journal Prompts
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I was born in Jamaica, raised under the South Florida sun, and I’m now planting roots in West Africa.
After years of hustling, overgiving, and hiding the fullness of my feminine power. As I deepened my own practice of healing, journaling, steaming, and self-celebration, I realized I wasn’t alone. Women were craving more than products. They wanted permission to live sensually, slowly, and on their own terms. This platform was born from that desire, to bring beauty, body love, and wellness back into the everyday.
Softness awakened me. Now I share it with you
Hi, I’m Nerissa Nefeteri Olugbala, sensual wellness coach, womb whisperer, and the heart behind The Lotus Fresh Line.
After COVID, life got loud. The world didn’t slow down, it spiraled. I found myself pulling back from the spaces I used to pour into. The constant noise, pressure, and negativity were draining my peace and my rituals.
I needed a break. I needed a rebirth. So I stopped chasing what I thought I should be doing and started listening to what my body truly needed: softness, slowness, sunlight, and solitude.
I let go of the pressure to keep my business on top and chose to come home to myself. I made room for grace, and in that space, I found balance again.
Soft Girl Summer is the result. Not just a brand, but a healed pace.
A gentle revolution that starts within.
a gentle revolution that starts within
